ホストの会話術は一流?モテる会話術

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ホストが話す会話は接客業の中でも一流と言われています。

ホストはイケメンの人が稼げると勘違いしている人が多いですが、実際に顔が平均くらいでも年収が3000万を超える人も多くいます。

ホストが顔じゃないとすれば何が大切なのか?

ホストで一番大切なのは、お客様を如何に楽しませるかという会話力です。

この記事では、ホストの会話術にスポットを当てて紹介していきます。

相談を聞くときは、相手の目を見て親身な態度で接する

会話術と言っても、彼氏彼女の様に相手が楽しませる会話だけではありません。

お客様と2人の空間でお客様が相談をした時に、正確な答えをすぐ伝えるのでなく、お客様の目線で何故悩んでいるのか、どうすればいいのか?をホストは自然に考えて行動しています。

まずは、相手の気持ちに寄り添うように自分も昔こういった苦労があったなど、エピソードを加えると相手の気持ちに少しでも寄り添い、お客様も心を開いてくれます。

会話のテクニックとして、相談された時は相手が答えを知りたいと考えて、答えをすぐに教える男性が多いですが、実際に相談する人の9割が既に答えが出ているという情報もあります。

相談は、答えを知りたいのでなく、実際に自分の気持ちを理解してほしいという事を前提に会話をする事が大切です。

褒め方が上手い!

会話の時にさり気無く、褒める事が重要です。

褒めれば何でも良いと思っている人が多いですが、ただ褒めれば良いという事ではありません。

例えば、可愛い女性に「可愛い」、綺麗な女性に「綺麗」と言った場合、確かに人は褒められると嬉しいですが、相手のモチベーション(嬉しい気持ち)が上昇するだけで、実際に恋愛やそこから仲良くなるパターンは極めて少ないです。

一流の営業マンは相手の容姿は絶対に褒めない人が多いです。
何故なら、容姿を褒める場合言われた人は「お世辞」と思ったりわざとらしいと思う人が大半です。

重要なのは、下心が見えない様に褒める事、自分の為に伝える言葉でなく相手の本質的な部分を褒める事が大切です。

それでは何処を褒めるのが正解なの?

褒める時は少し捻った褒め方をすると女性は喜びます。

例えば性格が良いねと単純に言うのでなく、「○○さんといたら空気がふわっとしてリラックス出来る」「男性を立てるのが上手だよね!普段よりも頑張っちゃう」など一言+何故そう思ったのかを伝える事が重要です。

理由を付ける事で適当に言っているのでないというアピールが出来るので、是非実践してみて下さい。

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